Compliment.

He may not know this, but my friend sent me the best message after seeing the pic of machu picchu I posted a few weeks ago:

"So I saw your picture and have to ask, what are you doing with your life? Not asking in a concerned way, like a sibling toeing the line between recreational user and addict. Asking more from an interested perspective. Seems like you are always climbing something...."

Ah! A woman can still maintain her mystery in this day and age! And be interesting without being a train wreck! And the angels are singing!